I always welcome bespoke charm requests - this includes changing the standard name personalisations to perhaps something closer to your heart. Grandad may always have been known as "Pops" or "Gramps" or even "Grampy" here in Wales! You will have your own fond memories and perhaps a family or pet/cherished name that you wish to be incorporated into your bouquet charm . Please let me know - as I can usually add the name into one of the message or poem charms. I will send out the version of the Poem that is ordered....but will happily customise on request. It is also possible to mix and match the colour scheme of the poem charms. Some of them are printed with a small amount of coloured floral detail underneath the verse. Others are in a black and white format with just a little heart underneath. I am more than happy to mix and match the frame or locket with whichever version of the poem you prefer. There is no one right answer - as they say "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". I enjoy creating beautiful charms that I hope bring some small comfort and fill a little gap to make your Wedding Day feel more complete. Please do get in touch if you have a special name in mind. Thank you, Rachel xx